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Matthew Riddle's avatar

Sam,

I think I can absolutely relate to this, I hope I don’t miss the mark in my response especially as I share from my own experience. If you remember you and I met for lunch not too long ago and I explained how I had thrown away all of my game collection, deleted most digital game accounts, various retro memorabilia, gaming art books, and sold my movie collection. I spent many years amassing all of that, I loved the thrill of the hunt, bargaining, winning auctions for reasonable deals, I liked reselling it when I could. I think much of this comes from nostalgia, while I certainly held an interest in retro video games, how they were made, the stories they told, I was essentially living in the past. Much like those with Pokémon cards, I had many hopes and dreams of sharing these items and memories with my own family one day, if I had joy with them certainly they would, just like so many others, a plus side is that they had monetary value.

Ultimately, I didn't have anyone to truly share them with and they kept me trapped in the past, in my memories and my imagination, while we call it nostalgia, I think we prefer to call it “simpler times.” Even if I did have a family to share it with, would it of been worth it or good? There is so much more to say here on how God has used this in my life, but it also hasn’t been a year and I am still working through it, because it still feels like a loss. I am sure you understand what I mean.

What you say at the end of the article, which I believe is your overall point, is everything to me. I will be going on a trip to Japan soon as an experience, it isn’t as a minimalist or someone who is rejecting having physical sentiments, but as someone who has now been learning that these things will never satisfy, not even the next generation you share it with, we were made for another world and that world isn’t the world of The Witcher, Clair Obscur, Zelda, Super Mario, Final Fantasy, or Pokémon, it’s Eternal Life with Christ in Heaven.

John Angelico's avatar

I agree with you, Sebastian. Just last night we hosted some of our children and spouses/girlfriends to a small family gathering. We all enjoyed the company around our dinner table, along with the good food, a board game, and some gift giving. The occasion was the arrival of one son who mainly works in the UK being Down Under to manage a folk festival gig. The fact that we can talk by email or other e-means at any time, did not diminish the significance of being physically together in one room again.

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